Archive for the 'Relationships' Category

On Meanings, Tyrannies, Women & Monsters

September 12th, 2008

Then, in my childhood in the dawn
Of a most stormy life was drawn
From every depth of good and ill
The mystery which binds me still . . .
–Edgar Allan Poe, Alone

1. The Meaning of Things
I’ve never lost my childhood sense of mystification – my ability to be amazed by the intricate puzzles and foggy [...]

The Belladonna Women

August 27th, 2008

In ancient Italy, extracts of belladonna were used by women in the form of cosmetic eye drops, which dilated their pupils and gave their eyes a bright, glistening appearance. Large pupils were thought to be a sign of feminine beauty, hence the name Belladonna for “beautiful woman.”
They are always beautiful, the Belladonna women, [...]

While Awaiting the Rack & Condemnation of the Religious Wrong…

July 30th, 2008

Subtitled: If my eye offends you, fuck you. It’s mine.
Tomorrow, the religious wrong, while pretending religion has nothing to do with it, will attempt to beat me over the head with their imagined moral authority and their too-real power. Chest-beating Christians will circle around me in a vulturous group, waiting [...]

A Pauper’s Tale

June 15th, 2008

I had a better Father’s Day post planned, but I can’t find The Picture. The one taken five years before my birth, in which either my son or I appear to be about two years old. It’s hard to tell the gender of the child in the Hawaiian shorts and white t-shirt, but [...]

In which Linda plays matchmaker

June 11th, 2008

No, no. . .I really am not looking for lust love someone to adopt a child from China with a date on the internet, but in the spirit of fun Linda played shadchen and I played along — the single Ethel to her married [...]