by Jane Devin on 05/12/2008
Being Mother’s Day, I wondered if I should write a post about my mother but then I thought, no. It’s too sad, really, and not the kind of tribute others want to read. Many mothers, it seems, left dark mysteries and heartaches as legacies to their daughters. Mine was no exception. It would be more [...]
by Jane Devin on 04/03/2008
A decade or so ago, she flipped her blonde hair back with a wave, adjusted her sunglasses, and leaned forward for the customary hug goodbye. I thought, as I often did, how very stunning my sister was, how elegant, and how unlike me, from her long, thin legs to her alabaster skin. Dianne was beautiful [...]
by Jane Devin on 12/11/2007
I. The Horror of Jonestown I was sixteen years old, and just months into an emancipation that was all at once frightening, peaceful, and confusing. I had no idea what I was doing, but was determined to let experience be my teacher. After a few fits and starts in the foreign territory of Northern California, [...]
by Jane Devin on 09/05/2007
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Bad experiences are character building. Think positive. What comes around goes around. Live and learn. It’s not what other people do to you, it’s how you choose to feel about it. Buck up, be strong. Count your blessings. Forget it all. From the time-worn cliches meant to vindicate [...]
by Jane Devin on 06/25/2007
At thirteen, I was the babysitter for several families. The Adams family with their two affable boys, huge record collection, and never-ending snack supply were my favorites. Chuck Adams, the father, was something of a reformed hippie, mellow and easygoing, the kind of man I wished I had for a dad. In the spring of [...]